Considering a divorce in Texas? You’ve probably heard all the warnings—from well-meaning friends, family, or even the internet. They’ll tell you how messy it is, how you’ll lose everything, and how long it will drag on.
Stop listening.
Most of what you hear about divorce is pure fiction, designed to scare you into inaction. At Coontz Cochran, we deal with the reality of Texas divorce every day. We’re here to set the record straight and empower you with the truth. It's time to debunk the top myths about divorce.
Myth #1: Texas is a Community Property State, So Everything is Split 50/50.
This is the most common and dangerous myth out there. While Texas is a community property state, the law requires a "just and fair division" of assets. That doesn't always mean 50/50.
Factors like who handled which finances, separate property, and even fault in the breakup can influence the division. Don’t assume you’ll walk away with exactly half. You need an aggressive attorney who knows how to fight for what you've earned and what is rightfully yours.
Myth #2: My Spouse's Cheating Means I Get Everything.
Yes, Texas is a "no-fault" divorce state. However, the law allows for a "fault" divorce based on grounds like adultery or cruelty. While proving fault can influence the division of community property and potentially secure a larger share for you, it is not a golden ticket to getting everything.
Don't let a partner's infidelity be your only play. Adultery can be a powerful tool, but it's not the entire strategy. You need a lawyer who will leverage every advantage available, not just one.
Myth #3: Divorce is a Long, Brutal War.
It can be—if you let it. An aggressive, client-focused attorney is not one who needlessly escalates conflict. An aggressive attorney is one who is smart and strategic, aiming for the best possible outcome in the most efficient manner possible.
The vast majority of divorce cases are settled outside of court through negotiation or mediation. A drawn-out legal battle only benefits the lawyers, not the clients. We believe in decisive action, not endless conflict.
Myth #4: The Mother Always Gets Primary Custody of the Kids.
This antiquated notion is long gone. Texas law mandates that courts determine custody based on the "best interest of the child." This standard is gender-neutral. Judges today are more focused on which parent can provide a stable, loving environment.
If you are a father who is an active and engaged parent, don't let this myth stop you. Your role is just as important, and you have every right to fight for your children.
Burleson Family Law Attorney Ready to Help
Don't let these myths dictate your future. Your divorce doesn’t have to be a nightmare of legal fees and emotional turmoil. It can be a strategic move toward a better future, but only if you have the right team in your corner. At Coontz Cochran, we have been protecting Texan families in Johnson County and Greater Fort Worth since 1990. We know the family law process and are prepared to fight for you and your rights. Don't wait. It’s time to take control.
Call us today at (888) 858-0536 and let's get you on the path to freedom.